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I Regret My Abortion – Madison, WV

I Regret My Abortion – Madison, WV

Did you have an abortion and now find yourself depressed and regretful?

You are not alone.

Many women who choose abortion find themselves swept up in the aftermath with deep feelings of regret, shame, and depression. Abortion advocates will tell you this is because the culture around you tells you to feel this way and you should just get over it. But when we are in the midst of such pain and instinctual regret, those kinds of ideological platitudes feel empty, and unhelpful.  Wrestling with the feelings surrounding abortion can feel impossible, it may be tempting to ignore them and distract yourself from them in hopes that they will go away. But the emotional wreckage abortion can cause cannot be so simply brushed off, you may find yourselves hit with it in unexpected moments, in the spaces between distractions, or in time alone. It can feel hopeless and you may feel crushed with the weight of these feelings.

But you don’t have to be. It is not hopeless, and you are not alone. Countless women have abortions in their past. Facing the pain, guilt, and grief is not something you have to do alone. You may have had your abortion (or abortions) decades ago, or just yesterday, regardless, we want to help you walk through the aftermath so that you can find hope, healing, and comfort. We want to you to find freedom from your guilt and shame.

We would love to help you–confidentially and without judgement.

 

I’m Pregnant, What’s Next – Madison, WV

I’m Pregnant, What’s Next – Madison, WV

If you think you are pregnant but feel overwhelmed by the mere thought of it, you’re not alone. It can help to simply break down each step and just do one thing at a time. Pregnancy is nine months long, you don’t have to have everything figured out today.

The first step if you suspect you are pregnant is to take a pregnancy test for confirmation. Our center offers free pregnancy tests and our trained staff and volunteers will go over your test results with you confidentially. We will share with you the options and information available to you and what steps you need to take next.

If you are pregnant and you aren’t sure what to do, that’s okay. If your test is positive you have many good options before you, our staff will gladly discuss them, helping you weigh the pros and cons so that you can choose the best option for you and your baby. We have information on parenting–including educational videos for caring for newborns and other parenting skills. We also have information on adoption and can connect you with agencies. We have information on abortion–how they are performed and the long and short term effects they can have. We want to help you make a decision that is best for you and your baby, a decision you can come to thoughtfully, not in desperation, so that you can be certain it is what you want to do.

Pregnancy can feel overwhelming, it can seem like you have to decide everything right now, but you need only take one step at a time. Your first step can be coming in to see us. You’re not alone, we would love to help.

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Pregnant and Alone – Madison, WV

Pregnant and Alone – Madison, WV

Are you facing your pregnancy alone?

You may have just found out you’re pregnant, maybe you’ve known for a while but you don’t want to tell your partner, or your partner has decided they don’t want the responsibility that comes with your pregnancy. Whatever the circumstance, pregnancy can feel like it carries a host of uncertainties as it is, but feeling as though you’re facing it alone can feel like too much to bear. Society tells you that abortion is your best option, that you cannot carry a pregnancy on your own and so you must end it. They are right in saying that pregnancy is hard when you’re alone, but the answer is not to try and get rid of life, it is instead to find the support you need to carry your baby to term and choose the best future for you both. Pregnancy shouldn’t be faced alone, and that’s why we’re here. We are here to give you the support you need to move forward with confidence, to prepare for each trimester, labor and birth so you find peace every step of the way, and to prepare for either parenting or adoption so you have the security of knowing you have chosen the best option for you and your baby. We are here to listen to you when you feel overwhelmed, and we have numerous resources to help you make educated decisions that will leave you at peace and give you and your baby a future of promise.

No one should face pregnancy alone, so come in today, and let us walk with you through it.

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Abortion: I Can’t Fulfill My Dreams – Madison, WV

Abortion: I Can’t Fulfill My Dreams – Madison, WV

If you have unexpectedly found yourself pregnant, it can seem like your world is falling apart. If you have aspirations in your education or your career, a baby seems like an impossible addition to those goals. It might seem like an abortion is the answer to your fears. Abortion is not some quick fix, it is a choice that carries grief, physical complications, and often great regret for women who choose it. Before you make such a huge decision, consider an alternative perspective.

It is true that babies change your life, but change is not always bad, even if it changes the way we achieve our goals. Having a baby might change your schedule, reroute your plans, or force you to be creative with how you approach education and career, but that doesn’t mean you cannot achieve those things at all. In fact, many women who are in situations just like you, have found that having a baby helped their perspective change in a way that made them better students and employees.

An unexpected pregnancy can change your life, and it can make finishing high school or college, or continuing in your career, a challenge, but often the most challenging things are those that our worth our effort in fighting for. Choosing life and continuing to pursue your goals isn’t easy, and it isn’t something you can do alone, but it is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone, we’re here to help.

At Cross Roads we want to help you think through your options. Our volunteers and staff want to lend a listening ear to you as you share your unique circumstances, we want to help you find answers for a choice that will bring you peace, and we want to help connect you to the resources that can help you accomplish your goals without sacrificing life. Come in today, we’re ready to help.

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Is Abortion Legal in WV? – Madison, WV

Is Abortion Legal in WV? – Madison, WV

Is abortion still legal in West Virginia? You’re probably asking this question because you’re considering abortion for yourself, or a loved one. It’s an important question, and yet there is a more important question to accompany it. Yes, abortion is still legal in West Virginia, but does that mean you or someone you love should pursue getting one?

If you or someone you love is considering abortion it is likely because you face an unplanned pregnancy, or perhaps circumstances surrounding a pregnancy have changed. You likely feel scared, uncertain, and want to find something to “fix” things. But abortion does not fix the problems that make your pregnancy seem unbearable, it often compounds them. Abortion may be legal, but that doesn’t mean that it is your best option, and it most certainly isn’t your only option.

If you or someone you love is facing an unplanned pregnancy and you feel alone and uncertain, we are here to help you. Sometimes the best way to decide on what to do next is simply to talk with someone who cares, and at Cross Roads Pregnancy Center we care about you. You can come in for a free pregnancy test, and speak with one of our caring staff or volunteers, we are here to listen to you, to share with you the many options before you as you face pregnancy, and most of all to help you see that you are not in this alone. Call or come in and see us today.

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Abortion: Side Effects? – Madison, WV

Abortion: Side Effects? – Madison, WV

Are there side effects to abortion? The answer to this question is two-fold. You are likely asking this question because you are pregnant and considering having one. We’d like to help you sort through your choices.

Most abortion advocates will tell you that abortion doesn’t have any side effects at all, that it is akin to getting a tooth pulled, and after having one it will be as thought you were never pregnant. As with anyone selling you anything, they tend to over-praise abortion, glossing over how it effects women in both body and mind.

Pregnancy is obviously something more emotional than a tooth needing pulled. It emotionally effects us. You likely feel a combination of any number of emotions upon suspecting or confirming your pregnancy. If pregnancy in itself is emotional, then it is reasonable to expect that the ending of a pregnancy would be emotional as well. Many women experience varying degrees of depression and anxiety as a result of their abortions, some for their entire life. Abortion comes with emotional side-effects. Your pregnancy likely has you feeling vulnerable, changed even, simply ending the pregnancy will not take away those emotions. An abortion does not undo a pregnancy, it doesn’t turn back the clock as though you were never pregnant. It ends a pregnancy that already exists, and as a result, it carries a number of negative emotional side effects.

In addition to the emotional side effects of pregnancy, there are physical side-effects. As with any surgical procedure, there is always a risk. An abortion does not suddenly turn your body back into what it was pre-pregnancy, and depending on the trimester of the abortion, the level of invasiveness carries various risks. Pregnancy effects your body, thus the ending of an abortion will effect your body.

So, are there side effects to abortion? Yes. It is not just a simple, emotionless, nor painless procedure.

The good news is, it isn’t your only choice. At Cross Roads we want to help you weigh your options in pregnancy, to look at each of them honestly. Our compassionate staff and volunteers will gladly walk you through the many resources available to help you understand the full scope of your choices. If you are pregnant and feeling desperate, we can help you. We want to help you find the best option that will carry you into a future that feels hopeful, not doomed. We want to help you choose from a place of peace, not desperation. Our staff and volunteers want to walk with you, to help you sort through all the emotions and information surrounding pregnancy, so that you can make the best choice for you. Come in today, we want to help.

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Abortion: I’m Too Young – Madison, WV

Abortion: I’m Too Young – Madison, WV

Are you in Madison, WV and suspect you’re pregnant? Do you feel like you are too young to have a baby, and not sure where to go from here?

You are not alone. You are not the first to experience the fear of being pregnant and yet feel too young to take on that responsibility. Cross Roads has helped many women just like you, and we want to help you too.

Abortion is often touted as the best solution to pregnancy in youth; it is advertised as an easy procedure with no ill side-effects, claiming it can help you go on with your life as though you were never pregnant at all. But like all things advertised, things are not always as simple as those selling would like them to seem. Abortion is neither simple, nor side-effect free, it comes with emotional and physical consequences, and it is a decision that is no more simple than pregnancy is. The good news is, it isn’t your only option. You have a wealth of choices to pick from, and you can take your time in choosing. There is no rush, you don’t have to decide anything today.

Pregnancy can feel scary, especially if it is unplanned and you are still in your teen years. It can seem impossible, maybe even embarrassing. You may feel like you have no one you can turn to. We want you to know that you are not alone, we want to help. You can come in for a free pregnancy test, and if you qualify, a free ultrasound and nurse consultation. You can speak confidentially with our compassionate staff and volunteers. We are a safe environment where you can ask all your questions, express your fears, and find the best choice for your future, without condemnation. Call, text, or come in today. You can come alone, or bring a trusted friend.

Call Us: 304-344-4511

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Abortion: I Can’t Afford a Baby – Madison, WV

Abortion: I Can’t Afford a Baby – Madison, WV

You clicked on this blog for a reason: maybe you suspect you are pregnant, had a positive pregnancy test, or you may have been pregnant for some time but new issues have arisen and now you feel financially unstable and uncertain. As a result, you may feel as though abortion is the only place you can turn.

Every situation and pregnancy is different, and your circumstances are unique to you, however, it is never a necessity to have to choose between finances and staying pregnant. There are many resources and choices available for women in situations of all variety and difficulty. Money does not have to be the deciding factor for your choices in pregnancy, and abortion is not your only option.

At Cross Roads we want to help you sort through your many options. You can come in for a free pregnancy test to verify you’re pregnant, and if you qualify, have a free ultrasound and nurse consultation. Our volunteers and staff are ready to listen to your unique situation and help you decide which option is best for you. We want to help connect you with resources based on what you choose, not because you feel like you have to, but because you want to choose the very best option for your future. Our Center has programs to help with maternity clothing and baby items, and we can connect you to the many resources available in your community; we can also connect you to the many resources and information available on adoption choices. You have many options, you don’t have to feel trapped into one choice.

You aren’t alone in making your decision. When faced with uncertainties it can feel like there isn’t any hope or choice, but you don’t have to wade through that uncertainty alone, we want to help.

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Abortion: What Do They Cost? Madison, WV

Abortion: What Do They Cost? Madison, WV

The short answer: It depends.

The truest answer is more nuanced than that.

You’re looking for abortion information in Madison, WV because you’ve found out you’re pregnant, or maybe you haven’t taken a pregnancy test yet, but you suspect that you are. You’re likely feeling overwhelmed, alone, and uncertain. Maybe you have seen ads, or heard about abortion from others, and it sounds like an easy solution to what you’re feeling. It promises it can get rid of this pregnancy that has you feeling so completely out of control, and you can be on your way, or back to how things were before. But the promises abortion makes are not as clear-cut as they seem. Pregnancy is no small thing, and ending one isn’t as easy as abortion may make it sound. There are costs to having an abortion, and before you make your decision you deserve to know what it will cost you physically and emotionally, in addition to the monetary cost.

We can help.

Come in for a free pregnancy test and consultation. We can give you the information you need to make your decision wisely, knowing before you decide what it will really cost you in all areas of your life. Our staff and volunteers are here for you: to listen to you, and give you information about pregnancy, abortion, and other options. Pregnancy can seem daunting and lonely, but it doesn’t have to be. You don’t have to face your decision or your pregnancy alone. We are here for you, we want to hear from you.

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How Do I Get an Abortion? Madison, WV

How Do I Get an Abortion? Madison, WV

You may be considering abortion for any number of reasons: perhaps you are afraid of the financial considerations, worried about other’s reactions to your pregnancy, you feel too young, or maybe you just don’t feel like right now is the right time for you to bring a baby into your life. Whatever your circumstances, deciding to have an abortion is a serious, and life-altering decision. It is one that you should take great care in making. Abortion may end your unplanned pregnancy, but it will not make things simply disappear, it carries with it a number of emotional and physical consequences that you deserve to know about before making any decisions. Before you choose abortion there are some important steps you can take to be sure that you’re making an informed decision.

Get Support

Decisions surrounding pregnancy should never be made alone, you’re vulnerable, in the height of hormonal and emotional changes, and it’s important for you to have others helping you work through your options so you can make the best long-term decision for your life. Speak with your significant other, a trusted friend, or family member; and call, text, or visit Cross Roads where we have compassionate staff and volunteers who are ready to speak with you confidentially and kindly, we want to help. Pregnancy can feel terrifying when you face it alone, it may seem like you’re stuck darkness that you cannot escape, but you don’t have to face it alone, and you don’t have to make any decisions alone either.

Learn the Facts

There is a lot of misinformation about abortion. Abortion is not simple, and like any other medical procedure it’s important that you know exactly what to expect and potential side-effects of abortion are before you decide. Our trained medical staff can provide you with clear, up-to-date information on abortion, as well as all your options surrounding pregnancy, and they are always ready to help you work through your choices with a compassionate listening ear.

Take Time 

Pregnancy can make everything feel rushed, especially if you’re in position that makes you fearful of it. It can feel like you have to decide everything the moment you see that positive pregnancy test, like your whole life is changing right now. But, while it may feel that way, often our feelings are poor indicators of truth. You might feel panicked and like you don’t have any options in front of you, but the reality is much more hopeful than that. You have a myriad of choices before you, you have time to consider them all and discuss them with someone you trust. You don’t have to decide anything right now. So take your time, come see us at Cross Roads and let us help you sort through all the feelings to find what’s best. We’d love to talk with you.

Call Us: 304-344-4511

Text Us: 304-508-2911

Email Us: contactus@crossroadspcc.com